Herb Reese

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Herb Reese is an author, public speaker and President of New Commandment Men's Ministries. Herb has a B.A. in History from UCLA and a Th.M. in Pastoral Ministries from Dallas Theological Seminary. He has done post graduate work in The History of Ideas at University of Texas, Dallas and in Church Administration at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. After serving as a pastor over a period of twenty years, Herb founded New Commandment Men's Ministries, a ministry dedicated to helping churches recruit, train, organize and deploy teams of men who permanently adopt their widowed and single parents. Herb has served as President of New Commandment since 2003 and has helped 1,000 churches develop men's team ministries in all 50 states and eight foreign countries. Herb and his wife, Patti, live in Arvada, Colorado, and have three adult children.

Good Friday and Ministry to Widows and Single Moms

My childhood church had a Good Friday tradition of holding a special service at noon on the seven last words of Jesus. Since it was a downtown church, business people from the surrounding offices attended the service. Traditionally called the seven last words of Jesus, they’re actually the seven last […]

3 Classic OT Examples of Christ’s Love

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog 3 Classic OT Examples of Christ’s Love By Herb Reese   They were precursors, forerunners, exemplars. Hundreds of years before Jesus Christ invaded our earth and left us his command to love each other as he has loved us, they actually did it. Three Old […]

An Intergenerational Orphanage and Retirement Community

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog An Intergenerational Orphanage and Retirement Community By Herb Reese   I’ve often thought that combining a retirement home with an orphanage, foster care facility, preschool, or even an elementary school, would be super cool. The resulting interaction would develop a symbiotic relationship where older adults […]

Are You Serving a Widow with a Deadbeat Son?

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Are You Serving a Widow with a Deadbeat Son? By Herb Reese   I’ve had it. Up to here. I’m currently working with three widows, each of whom have an adult son who is not pulling his weight when it comes to helping his mother. […]

"No task too small" should be our motto when serving others."

No Task Too Small

Serving others may be humiliating, but such humiliation is necessary. Humility is a prerequisite Christian virtue. “No task too small” should our motto.

The Last Thing Pastors Need is Another Guilt Trip

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog The Last Thing Pastors Need is Another Guilt Trip By Herb Reese   Pastors are like taffy, they’re pulled in every direction until they’re completely stretched out. This post gives a solution to one source of ministry overload: congregational care. Read the post.     […]

The Life and Times of Theodorus Eby

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog The Life and Times of Theodorus Eby By Herb Reese   I’m sitting in Corner Coffee Shop in Intercourse, Pennsylvania – Amish country – watching traffic go by while I write this post. A constant stream of cars and semis whiz along the narrow, two […]

My Harrowing Experience as a Mediator

“Helen” had a worried look on her face. “I need you to go to the hospital and talk to someone on behalf of my husband.” Her husband had just broadsided a car and severely injured two young boys in the back seat. Their father, who was driving, became irate and […]

Homelessness as Poverty of Relationship

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Homelessness as Poverty of Relationship By Herb Reese   Over the last couple of years I’ve had a number of fascinating conversations with homeless people. One frequent theme I hear is the problem of broken relationships. When I ask the homeless person I’m talking to […]

Men are to be Providers and Protectors

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Men are to be Providers and Protectors By Herb Reese   It’s a sign of the times that I have to begin a post about an obvious truth – that men are to be providers and protectors – with a disclaimer: No, I am not […]

Precooked Good Works

“God has made us what we are, and in our union with Christ Jesus he has created us for a life of good deeds, which he has already prepared for us to do.” It’s hard for us to believe that the God of the universe concerns himself with the trivia […]

Moral Foundations and Serving the Widowed and Single Parents

“If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” Psalm 11:3 Good question, isn’t it? If the foundations of law and order are destroyed, what can we, who like to think we are part of that group called “the righteous,” do? Well, one thing we can do is shore […]

Grandpa Reese’s Business Card

I never knew my grandfather. He died years before I was born. But I do know that Sivert Reese took his time getting married. Grandpa Reese was twenty-eight when he married Marit Risse, recently arrived from Opdal, Norway, on his farm near Irene, South Dakota. I’m not sure if it […]

You Can Do This!

I’ve spent the last sixteen years of my life obeying Isaiah 1:17: “Take up the cause of the fatherless, plead the cause of the widow.” I have done – and am doing – exactly what this passage tells us to do. Over the years, many of you have been following […]

It is Because of Us

“God’s name is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you.” Romans 2:24 Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve heard something I’ve never heard before on mainstream broadcast TV: the name “Jesus” used as a curse word…twice. For those of us who are Christians, this brazen willingness to express public […]

The Spirit of Cain is Alive and Well in America’s Churches

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog The Spirit of Cain is Alive and Well in America’s Churches By Herb Reese   Churches have no plan for addressing long term needs “A sniper’s bullet shattered our windshield and instantly killed my husband as he drove our family along a remote highway in […]

The Spirit of Cain in Genesis and in Us

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog The Spirit of Cain in Genesis and in Us By Herb Reese   If you ask people what the book of Genesis is about, most would say it’s about creation. After all, the book’s name, “Genesis,” means “beginning.” But Genesis is not about creation, the […]