Herb Reese

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Herb Reese is an author, public speaker and President of New Commandment Men's Ministries. Herb has a B.A. in History from UCLA and a Th.M. in Pastoral Ministries from Dallas Theological Seminary. He has done post graduate work in The History of Ideas at University of Texas, Dallas and in Church Administration at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. After serving as a pastor over a period of twenty years, Herb founded New Commandment Men's Ministries, a ministry dedicated to helping churches recruit, train, organize and deploy teams of men who permanently adopt their widowed and single parents. Herb has served as President of New Commandment since 2003 and has helped 1,000 churches develop men's team ministries in all 50 states and eight foreign countries. Herb and his wife, Patti, live in Arvada, Colorado, and have three adult children.

In Praise of Missionaries

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog In Praise of Missionaries By Herb Reese   Missionary service shaped the author’s extended family, childhood church, and understanding of global Christianity. Remembering relatives and family friends who served overseas, especially Roland and Mildred Rice in China and Taiwan, this tribute honors generations of believers […]

Revisiting the Three Unique Qualities of Christ’s Love

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Revisiting the Three Unique Qualities of Christ’s Love By Herb Reese   Christ’s love has three distinctive qualities: personal identification, permanent commitment, and sacrifice. Grounding them in the Incarnation and redemption, this post explains how Christians can recognize and practice Jesus’ command to love one […]

The Tyranny of Having to Prove Religious Sincerity

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog The Tyranny of Having to Prove Religious Sincerity By Herb Reese   Religious sincerity becomes tyrannical when people try to prove their faith through increasingly extreme sacrifice. Using Peter, cult evangelism, ISIS, and ancient human sacrifice, this post exposes three fallacies in that thinking and […]

My Response to a Snarky Pastor

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog My Response to a Snarky Pastor* By Herb Reese   A pastor’s criticism over Bible translations threatened to overshadow the needs of widows and single mothers. This post recounts the exchange, explains a measured response, and urges Christians with differing convictions to keep secondary disagreements […]

Are Millennial Men Redefining Masculinity?

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Are Millennial Men Redefining Masculinity? By Herb Reese   Research suggests younger men increasingly value selflessness, social engagement, and health alongside traditional masculine traits. This post welcomes that trend, connects it with men’s team ministry, and encourages pastors to give men opportunities to serve others […]

The Long Haul: Men’s Team Ministry for Decades

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog The Long Haul: Men’s Team Ministry for Decades By Herb Reese   Faithfulness is measured over years, not moments. Remembering a father whose commitments endured through decades of work, marriage, church membership, and cultural upheaval, this post challenges men’s ministry teams to honor the trust […]

It’s Time for America’s Churches to Take Their Financial Responsibilities to Their Widows and Others Seriously

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog It’s Time for America’s Churches to Take Their Financial Responsibilities to Their Widows and Others Seriously By Herb Reese   Scripture gives churches substantial responsibility for impoverished widows and others with persistent needs. Against the backdrop of growing financial insecurity among older Americans, this post […]

Using Random Team Formation for Your Men’s Team Ministry

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Using Random Team Formation for Your Men’s Team Ministry By Herb Reese   The apostles used prayer and casting lots when choosing Matthias, trusting God’s control over a random outcome. Applying that principle to men’s team ministry, this post argues against obsessing over assignments and […]

Why I Don’t Worry about Money, and Why You Shouldn’t Either

Photo courtesy Kevin Dooley I have been young, and now I am old, but I have never seen a righteous person abandoned or his descendants begging for food. Psalm 37:25 “Money is God’s problem, not mine.” That’s my life motto when it comes to money. Don’t get me wrong. I […]

Church with Men’s Team Ministry Survives Paradise, CA Fire

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Church with Men’s Team Ministry Survives Paradise, CA Fire By Herb Reese   All of us have been following the news about the tragic fire in Paradise, California. The “Camp Fire” is the worst fire in California history. Almost every home and building in Paradise […]

True Manly Meekness is not Weakness

“Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.” – Jesus “Meek: 1)enduring injury with patience and without resentment; 2) deficient in spirit and courage.” – Miriam-Webster Militant themes dominate men’s ministry these days. Men’s ministry leaders love to describe Christian men as soldiers fighting the good fight. Generals, […]

“Go Tell My Brothers” – Jesus’ Second Human Race

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog “Go Tell My Brothers” – Jesus’ Second Human Race By Herb Reese   For the last few years I’ve been enjoying exploring my family tree on Ancestry.com. Since I was a “surprise” baby – my mother was 44 and my father 47 when I was […]

My Surprising and Spiritually Refreshing Visit to The British Museum

I don’t know if you’ve ever been to London, but if you go, don’t miss The British Museum. It will be an unexpected source of spiritual encouragement for you. Patti attended a medical conference in Europe the last couple of weeks and I tagged along for fun. Besides maintaining her […]

Exclusivity and the Church

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Exclusivity and the Church By Herb Reese   Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth. But God chose the foolish things […]

Faded Love: Without a Plan, It’s Inevitable

Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:8 Widowhood is all about the experience of overwhelming loss: the loss of a loved one you have spent years nurturing a relationship with, building a home with, raising children with, eating meals with, paying bills with, watching TV with, making love with… And then […]

On Finishing Well

I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day, and not only to me, but also to all who […]

Serving Widows and Single Moms is Not Rocket Science, People

“Simple things for simple people.” I like that saying because I’m one of those simple people. I don’t like complexity, chaos and confusion. That’s why I make my bed every day. It’s a simple thing I can do to add order to my life. An unmade bed, with blankets, sheets […]