It’s sad to see people begging. It’s a reminder that we live in a fallen world and that there are people with real needs. But when it comes to seeing people begging, I almost always drive by without giving anything. But I also have to admit, I do feel a tinge of guilt every time I avert my eyes. Here’s my thinking on the subject.
- It’s okay not to give anything. In fact, it’s probably best not to give anything, at least not money. Consider this: if every passing car gave $1 or more, begging would be so lucrative people would just quit their jobs and beg. Another problem is ignorance. I know nothing about this person’s situation. I don’t know if he has a real need or not. I also don’t know how he will use my hard earned money – food, or drugs and alcohol? When there are help wanted signs in the windows of stores behind him (at least in this economy), I find it difficult to sympathize. And finally, there are private and government agencies dedicated to helping people who have genuine needs. They can do a much better job of helping than I can.
- It’s also okay to give something. There’s still that twinge of guilt when the light turns green and you step on the gas without having given anything. So if you really want to, then yes, it’s fine to give. Just do it in the right way.
- Don’t give money. ‘Nuff said.
- Give dedicated gift cards and non-monetary gifts. Purchase prepaid gift cards at, say, McDonald’s, and have them ready to hand out. That way you’re guaranteeing your gift will be used in the right way.
- Consider preparing a gift bag. If you feel a greater burden for these people, then prepare gift bags to hand out. They might include gift cards, toiletries, a list of local food banks, a gospel tract and other items.
When it comes to people begging in public, we can be both cold hearted or indiscriminate.
Hmm. I may be sinning on the cold hearted side. Maybe it’s time to prepare a gift bag.
This post first appeared in New Commandment.org.
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