Herb Reese

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Herb Reese is an author, public speaker and President of New Commandment Men's Ministries. Herb has a B.A. in History from UCLA and a Th.M. in Pastoral Ministries from Dallas Theological Seminary. He has done post graduate work in The History of Ideas at University of Texas, Dallas and in Church Administration at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. After serving as a pastor over a period of twenty years, Herb founded New Commandment Men's Ministries, a ministry dedicated to helping churches recruit, train, organize and deploy teams of men who permanently adopt their widowed and single parents. Herb has served as President of New Commandment since 2003 and has helped 1,000 churches develop men's team ministries in all 50 states and eight foreign countries. Herb and his wife, Patti, live in Arvada, Colorado, and have three adult children.

Why Every Multimillionaire Should Pull a Widow’s Weeds

Being a multimillionaire these days isn’t what it used to be. But it’s still an easy way to classify those in the upper echelons of our society. If you’re one of the three people reading this who fall into this category and have the ability to solve most of your […]

The Day Dad Wept

Dad had never wept before. Not even at Grandma Reese’s funeral. At least I had never seen him. So it came as quite a shock, the day Dad wept. To say that Dad was quiet and an introvert is putting it mildly. I’m quiet and introverted too. But I’m downright […]

Is Your Neighbor Loved by You or Just Bugged by You?

I’ve moved often over the years, both as a single man and while married. So I’ve collected a number of bad neighbor stories that inspire me to think about what it means to be a good–and bad–neighbor. Take the lout across the street from us who constantly yelled at his […]

How to Use Story and Illustration to Motivate Your Men to Do Good

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog How to Use Story and Illustration to Motivate Your Men to Do Good By Herb Reese   Early on in my ministry I sat through a seminar given by my lifelong friend, Dr. Don Sunukjian (pronounced Sa-Noo-key-an), professor of homiletics at Talbot Seminary. The title […]

A Single Mom’s Gift from God: An Interview with Emily Colson

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog A Single Mom’s Gift from God: An Interview with Emily Colson By Herb Reese   Emily Colson, daughter of Prison Fellowship founder, Chuck Colson, shares how she found God’s blessing in the midst of trial as a single mom and mother of an autistic son. […]

Emphasize Safety From the Very Beginning of Your Men’s Team Ministry

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Emphasize Safety From the Very Beginning of Your Men’s Team Ministry By Herb Reese   All ministry involves liability. While you should not let liability issues stop you from doing biblical ministry, you can mitigate liability by stressing safety from the first day of your […]

What Widows and Single Moms Need from the Church

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog What Widows and Single Moms Need from the Church By Herb Reese     Here’s a question seldom asked in the local church: What do widows and single moms actually need from the church and how can we address those needs? This post summarizes what […]

Some Thoughts on an Online Community for Men’s Team Ministry

The more I think about developing an online community for men’s team ministry, the more excited I get. Here are my thoughts about what this community might look like. It will have three “spaces”: a meeting space, a classroom space, and a bonus space. 1. A meeting space for those […]

The Day Azerbaijani Rebels Liberated New Commandment from Russian Hackers

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog The Day Azerbaijani Rebels Liberated New Commandment from Russian Hackers By Herb Reese   “Herb, have you checked your website this morning?” Long before Russian hackers hacked into the DNC and Sidney Blumenthal’s emails to Hillary Clinton, they discovered the strategic importance of New Commandment […]

A Man and His Dog: Spiritual Lessons from Dixie

I’ve mentioned Dixie in a previous post about losing weight. While my dog, a German shepherd husky mix, may seem to have little to do with my three major blogging topics-men’s team ministry to the widowed and single parents, men’s ministry in general, and the pressing needs around us-the spiritual […]

How Your Church Can Quit the Moving Business without Guilt

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog How Your Church Can Quit the Moving Business without Guilt By Herb Reese   Over the years, I’ve often asked the men in my workshops how many of them have helped someone in their church move. Well over ninety percent raise their hands, often groaning […]

Consider Closing in Prayer on Your Care Receiver’s Front Lawn

New Commandment Men’s Ministries Blog Consider Closing in Prayer on Your Care Receiver’s Front Lawn By Herb Reese   The vision Here’s the vision: a team of four godly and faithful men showing up once a month for years on the front porch of a widow, widower or single parent […]

Giver’s Remorse? Here’s How to Evaluate a Charity

We just got through the holiday season, which means we all received a tsunami of requests for donations from charities, New Commandment Men’s Ministries included. But more than a few of us may be experiencing “Giver’s Remorse,” a subtle regret that maybe it wasn’t so smart to shove that $50 […]